Straight Talk: House Maids Are They Lifesavers? Why Would My Husband Sleep With A Maid?

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So Today,  I am sharing this story on housemaids, are they truly life savers? When do we draw the line on what a maid should do for us in 'our' homes? Please read and share your thoughts.

Not long ago, a woman collapsed dead after finding her husband in the arms of their housemaid. She is not alone. Lovers have split and families have broken up as a result of some men not knowing their boundaries. The house was locked. She could hear her baby crying from inside. She called out to the maid in vain. Panicking, she picked up the phone to call her husband, but he was not picking up. Then, she noticed her husband’s car parked somewhere in the backyard. It seemed to be shaking. 

No, actually jolting up and down. Then on moving closer, she saw it all — her husband having sex with the maid in the car! She collapsed.

And a day later, died. Doctors said she had suffered a heart attack. Hard to believe? This is a true story that happened. A close friend of the deceased narrated this emotion-filled story on the popular Facebook forum for Ugandan mothers – Beautiful Modern Mamas.

Housemaids — God bless them –They do nearly everything for us. They cook, do laundry and clean our homes. But lately, they seem to be getting to know even some of our deepest secrets in the house, including your man’s boxers.

There is also the story of Jeff. Unknown to his wife, he was having an affair with his maid, Kate, for a long time. But Kate did not know how to report the matter to “madam” for fear of the unknown. So she kept the undesirable secret.

One fateful day, Jeff’s wife decided to clean up the house since she was on her annual leave, only to find two used condoms and a pair of knickers under their marital bed.

“How did these things get under my bed?” She fumed at her maid. “How?” And to her greatest surprise, the maid began to weep and confessed everything. Jeff’s wife was confused as she listened. “Is this true? My husband and this girl? Am I dreaming? All these years?”

She slapped her maid and asked her to leave immediately. She swore never to confront her husband about the issue. He never even asked why the maid had left, but guilt was written all over his face. Needless to say, their relationship is on the rocks. Outside, they are your ordinary lovey-dovey couple keeping up appearances for the sake of the children. However, back home, they do not even share a bed.

For Anne, a doctor, who sometimes goes on night shift, her husband’s affair with the maid was the last thing she expected.

How did she find out? On this fateful night — luckily or unluckily for her, she had forgotten her surgical set, so she decided to drive back home. It was almost midnight and she thought that her hubby was already sleeping. She tapped the door twice. No response.

She opened the door with her own keys and went straight to the bedroom, but couldn’t find her husband. So, she decided to check in other rooms and found him in the arms of their maid. Nude. Peacefully enjoying the night!

Guys, Why go for a maid? Men claim that women today are not being wives. Career women, they say, have become so distant and aggressive that they have become a turn off to men. “She denies you sex, she is moody and does not talk to you. So, you look for pleasure elsewhere. Is sleeping around the best solution? Is sleeping with the maid justifiable? 

Ladies lets talk, What would make your husband sleep with the housemaid? Are the maids meant to do everything in the home? Plus cleaning your bedroom and cooking for your husbands? Does the Pros of having maids outweigh the cons? Yes they might be necessary evils but when do we actually draw the line of the chores the Housemaids should do in the home?

  

What would you do?

Would you chase away the maid?

Would you report her to the Police?

Would you just pour acid on her?

To Your Husband, What would you do too?