Wednesday, 13 November 2013

TRUE LIFE STORY: The Tale Of A Married Woman. Part One.

Hello STo Readers, I came across this story I couldn't help but share I hope it inspires you.

It wouldn’t be nice if some single girls out there don’t get to know that marriages can work if you make it happen.
I got married 9yrs ago to my hubby, we dated for a year and got married. My friends were like it was too soon since we barely know our selves, I was staying in Abuja while him in Lagos, I just come occasionally to visit him, so after a year, we figured it was time to move to the next level which was very amazing.
We got married and I started living the life of a married woman.We loved each other so much but there were things we did not know about each other since it was long distance hence posed a problem for us. I had very bad mouth as of that time. I do like to challenge everyone including him which he didn’t like. We argued a lot which ends up with several beatings.

The first time my hubby hit me, I ran to my aunt’s place and later went back home, it happened again and again, but the whole thing was after the beatings, he comes back to say sorry and to tell me how the things I said to him really did hurt and how he’s hot tempered and I’m hot tempered and all. After a year, I told myself I had to work on myself, I stopped talking too much, prayed more often and asked God to help me with my temper, I stopped challenging him and always make him feel more than superior to me, like magic, the whole fighting stopped.

I took in and gave birth to our twin boys the second year. I was so engrossed with taking care of the babies that I forgot to give my hubby the attention he deserved. When my babies were 5 month old, I went through my hubby’s phone for the first time and I found out he was cheating on me. The girl in question was supposed to be a family friend but she started sleeping with my husband.
I went through the whole bbm chat and saw the way the girl started flirting with my hubby and how he tried to resist and how he finally fell for her tricks, I was mad, I was raged but at the same time I was determined to be calm about the whole thing. I didn’t mention it to him when he came to pick up his phone cause I would have insulted him and said so many hurtful things to him, so I pretended like I saw nothing.

The next day, I started jogging with some neighbours, but after 2weeks I got a treadmill and started using at home. I was still running in the morning and using the treadmill at night.
After 3 months, I lost the whole baby fat coming back to 60kg which was my initial weight. I didn’t give up,I kept trying to look fit and everything.

One night, my hubby came to me saying we needed to talk, I was like hope there is no problem? He said there is! HANG ON THERE FOR PART TWO 

*So Let's see the number of people interested in the part 2. Drop your comments below, make your voice heard* wink! The more voices the more I am encouraged to post it #tongue out#


  1. you had better quickly put up part two!!!!

  2. hmmm....would be interesting to see what happened next.

  3. Though many men just use their wives having baby fat as an excuse to cheat.....pathetic. The early months after child birth are the most vulnerable for a woman and thats when she needs the most support and encouragement from her husband. Okay na, lets see what happens next......Lobatan!

  4. God has endowed us with what we need to find answers to all our challenges if we are ready to do what it takes(pay the price). Thanks for the post. we all need to learn, I mean men and women alike. At least I have learnt that I need to help my wife to keep fit even after child birth.

  5. So that's how Sassyto won't put up the part 2 of this story #rolling my eyes#

  6. Hey guys! Thanks for your comments. Watch Out for part two on Monday......


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